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A first phone. A few good ground rules.
Prepare a child’s first phone with clear expectations, account recovery and an easy way to ask for help.
Published October 14, 2026.
A first phone is a practical tool and a new responsibility. Before handing it over, spend a little time on the parts that are easy to overlook when everyone is excited: account ownership, recovery, purchases, privacy and what to do when a message feels wrong. A short conversation now can make later problems easier to handle.
Set up the basics together
Confirm who owns the account, how the device is unlocked and where recovery information is kept. Review purchases and app installation permissions. Make sure your child can contact the people they need and understands what to do if the phone is lost. Use settings appropriate to the device and the child’s needs.
Talk about messages and sharing
The FTC encourages ongoing conversations about privacy and suspicious messages. Discuss what should never be sent to a stranger, including passwords and verification codes. Explain that an urgent message, prize or request from an unfamiliar account deserves a pause, even when it appears to come from someone their age.
Make asking for help feel safe
Agree that your child can bring you a worrying message without having to solve it alone. Avoid making the only response to a mistake an automatic loss of access. You can still set boundaries while making it clear that reporting a problem is the right thing to do. Revisit the rules as the way they use the phone changes.
A practical next step
Check recovery, purchases and privacy settings together.
Agree where the phone stays during sleep and schoolwork.
Choose a trusted adult to contact when something feels wrong.
Source: FTC: Kids and cell phones. Reviewed October 14, 2026. Product features and availability can change.
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